you don't know how much I appreciate your response....in my mind I totally see what you are saying and can see my H exactly acting like he's 12....really....but he just has that convincing way with me....he can make me believe what he is saying is truth...I mean about the "i'm never coming home", "I've been feeling like this for years", crap....no..I don't believe the other stuff....like today...he couldn't spend the day with our S11 because he had an "event"...the event would be spending the day and night with OW...so I have a huge stomach ache this morning....I wish I was strong but I'm not....when it comes to H I'm very weak...this is what I pray for most....besides the fact that she starts her cycle today....lol.....I wish....
My children have now taken the back burner.....but he has to be feeling some pain as my girls don't speak to him at all...for at least 6 weeks now....my older D longer....they were soooo close and now the OW has taken their place too...
Why do they wake up and just come up with.."well,, I've been thinking about this for a long time now...I don't want to be married anymore" ....such a fool...
and it's been 16 months since I found out about OW....I have not called her...she's trash to me....but doesn't he have to be developing some serious feeling for her...I'm sure they are at the ILY stage by now...
Last edited by Treese; 07/05/0801:58 PM.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity