Hi Jeff...WOOOOOWW! I nearly prolapsed something with excitement for you then! (see just how low our expectations of your W are?) She ACTUALLY SAID THAT !? Thats huge. You dont think that she thinks that one of the boys did it, do you?... I would leave the permanent marker by your bed (she goes in from time to time doesnt she?), just in case she has any doubts...
I'm so glad you took this step. And on the New Moon! In Cancer! Honouring the female. This means that you perhaps could say something to her about your C/depression/ADs on the Full Moon (becuase thats what this full moon is all about, men owning up to their depression, as its linked to Saturn). Just a thought!
i'm super thrilled for you, I am going to go have a special piece of celebratory Marmite toast in your honour...hey, maybe I'll even draw a smiley face with the marmite...
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I have a suggestion...how about looking up good morning in different languages? Start out with Buenos Dias, Guten Morgen, stuff like that. A friend of mine suggested I start texting H every morning with a different language, but we are not quite there yet, but maybe that would be a good place to start. Also, I like the smiley face idea, how about like the smileys on the net, draw a different kind every day???
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I am so happy you got the courage to try something different that seems to get a positive reaction. I would repeat and then try to find something else vor variety. Maybe post it notes later?
This could be you creating some kind of code of communication with your wife which you clearly need. I am excited about you. Imagine how surprised she was!!! Good job Jeff. Love K
Jeff - HOLY CRAP! I hope that is what she really said! You got a reaction from her. If she doesn't want the mirror cleaned then she wants that reminder every day of your love for her. THAT IS HUGE!!! It was subtle, sweet, and heartfelt. Oh, to have someone do something like that for me someday. That is so special. I'm really proud of you for taking that step forward.
You go Jeff! Go get her Jeff!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
