She told me that she now thinks that we will get back together in a few years.... after she has time and space to explore and sort things out. Why does she say things like that?
She wants her safety net.
Originally Posted By: Eagle 2
If it wasn't for the OM, I think that there would still be hope for us.
There's always hope. Just don't count on it (but I think you already know that and are there).
Definitely go for as much custody as possible. Make sure you present this as something you are doing to help her out or make her life easier (so she'll have more time for herself, get her life together, etc...).
It's interesting how her mom is encouraging the D. Why do you think that is?
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
