Your H is re-writing the past. It is common, but he is particularly skilled at it. Your H has a very mean streak. I think you are the only person who doesn't believe it exists. Is he a scorpio? He is always looking for your most vulnerable spot and hitting you there. And you are always open to him and seem surprised that he's done it again. This is the same B@$t@rd who kicked you out on Mother's Day. Coincidence? Not likely. Perhaps he fears that nothing will stop you from trying to hold this marriage together, so he just keeps taking swipes at you. He will not be satisfied until you turn and run.