WOW!! progress w H? Keeping my PMA

[pisces9]

here are some things i said- "so it sounds like you're saying..." and i also said..."so you mean..." and a lot of i understand and uh huhs... and "i appreciate you opening up to me"...."wow, you've gotten some clarity"...thats great .... "i like spending time with you and taking things slow"...."no decisions have to be made now".....its a lot of repeating the same statements or just staying quiet too. he filled in all the blanks...it was really nutso- i am still shocked and a bit scared...i still dont know what to make of it all- i know its all good- but it scary bc i truly cant believe he said it all...it was basically everything i wanted him to say (except lets get back together!).....my fear was that he wouldnt be able to change- and he can and has-- he really acknowledged everything...now it just has to sink in for both of us....