thnaks christarn, i dont know where i am riding yet but i doont really want too ride with her if she doesnt truely fell it is right for us to ride together. i have been doing real well with the whole GAL thing. i think it bothers her that i am focusing on other things besides her. so that is why she acts out sometimes. i am trying to be her friend but smetimes it is hard with how she acts. she acts as though everthing is my fault and i hate that. i try and just let things role of me and i dont think she likes that either. i am gonna make the best of this trip and have a great time with our girls and our friends i just hope she desnt try and bring me down to much. i am gonna use this week as a learning tool for the both of us and try and see how well we can function around one another for a whole week of being in the same house. i hope i can do it i feel as though i can. and as far as any of you talking to much i dont think that is possible i love hearing from anybody about this it deffently helps to get a womens point of view. thanks for all the help and advise hope all of you are ding well. thanks again mike