thanks for the info SC, i do have a couple oother ?s. the next day she gave me a whole lot of attude even all our friends saw it. she has been giving me this attude alot. when ever my friend frm Fl is around she doesnt give it to me. sometimes when i joke with her she calls me michael and she really never called me that unless it was sexual or if i were in trouble and when she does call me that she smiles it does make me feel good. what do you think of that? the next ? i have is we are going to the beach with a coouple of other familes tomorrow and she acted like she didnt want me to ride with her so i made arragements to ride with one of the other couples. she found out that we werent going until later in the morning and she told me that she didnt want to ride by herself i asked her if she wanted me to ride with her and she never said yes but she would beat around the bush that she did. how come she cant just ask me if she wants me t ride with her? thanks for the help, mike