Not trying to hijack, sorry if I am, just a question for Dom ; How do i prove I am sorry for the actions i have committed? Is that an answerable question ?
yes you were hijacking :P so i copied this from trixi's thread to yours.
It is always answerable. However, it depends on what exactly your actions WERE. and it also depends on the person you are saying sorry to.
the book "the 5 languages of apology" has some suggestions.
Doesnt work for everyone, though. For example, people who dont believe in ever forgiving anyone. such as my wife :P
In other words.. you can prove you are sorry... and even that you wouldnt do it again... Doesnt neccessarily mean they will care.
But still worth trying.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
