Hey Bridge, here's the lightbulb moment post....

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1483278&page=1&fpart=1

I'm still looking for the raincoat one.

xoxo

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.