Hi RTL!

Wow, that was a big day then and sounds like you did well. I dont understand the legaliteis, but I agree with the above post that shouldnt they just get you to settle out of court if you have average assets between you? Seems a little much to go to such extremes, and expensive!

About the dogs...thats not illegal in this country if the windows are wound down I think? People leave dogs in cars here, but people always call the police if the windows are wound up.

I agree that its wrong and unfair of your W to say she will "allow" you to see D...can you speak with her about this use of language? It makes me so mad !!! Fathers have rights too.

Yuo are sounding pretty together and you are going through a very difficult time right now. So what do you do for fun, aside from spend time with your D?

Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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