What gets me it wasn't that many things for her to have to call my H. The nephew is 19 and very capable of helping. I just think it was an excuse to call my H.
Yep, a total excuse! Horrible! But still your H has the responsibility for being with her like that--she wasn't holding a gun to his head or whatever, so I think he is horrible, too. And the lying--what does Puppy say about that???--Cheaters always lie or something like that--clearly that is true. I am realizing that more as time goes on that is very true. And I think they not only lie to us but themselves too (to be able to live with themselves). Karen
I totally agree Karen. He could have said no, but he didn't. He fell right into her trap. He is weak, liar, and a cheat. Funny things he keeps saying there are some things I need to change about myself. He needs to look in the mirror. Of course I don't tell him these things. It wouldn't do any good. After all cheaters always have a reason!
He told me last night that his life was miserable and he was stressed and I didn't understand. I told him I knew he had taken on too much in his business and I have offered many times to try to help him. I also told him that stringing along two women didnt't help with the stress and he agreed.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
