Hi Lost, I suggest sticking with just 1 thread so everyone knows where to find your entire story - you seem to have at least 3. I also suggest you clearly choose whether you want to save your M and make it happy or not - the key to this is with you, not so much with your H - maybe get professional C help on this, not OM's counsel. You simply can't have it both ways - OM+D and save the M. If you choose the later you can get lots of help here. I hope you choose wisely.
