yeah reading books on R and M brings out the blame stick in me too, or I want to pick up the phone and say "look i act this way, you do this and here's other people who have worked threw that" That won't help either.

There was one time during the move she noticed my stack of books and I caught her reading the back of the love language book, so maybe someday she will read and we can compare.

I would be happy to discuss it with you when you have finished. that is cool that you were able to apply lesson that you have read about with him. I tend to do great by myself and only ok when i am around her. It seems weird to have to carefully think about and plan out my actions around the only person who I have ever really been myself.

Maybe that’s the problem with M. when you date you are carefully considering the other persons image of you, then some where along go to far the other way and just being yourself is seen as uncaring.

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