Thinking not to hard of what I would do but what to post SC. I think I would hold her while she cried. Unconditional love is it? I guess the question I am struggling with is, would WAW want me to hold her....
H always asks "do you want me to hold you". At first my answer was always no. He was hurting me, how could he comfort me. He kept offering. Even after I said no 300 times.
Now, my answer is usually yes.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
