h4h,

I always keep up with your situation.....so similar......You have a month left with her you said. What can you do this last month that could change where your situation is headed? What might you wish you did a month from now when you are alone at home and W is in her apartment? Think hard about this.

I am thinking about what would have stopped me......when my H knew everything and I asked God for forgiveness....that's what stopped me.....repentence......... The feeling that I can't leave without trying EVERYTHING....retrouvaille and stopping contact with OM.