thanks Neil and GFI! im so elated- i cant believe he said all that. YES_ space, patience and Validate....i wont get to overly excited...but right now with you guys i am he was like a turtle that is slowly coming out of his shell- he had such a hard time saying this at the beginning of our talk an then the flood gates opened...holy cow! patience and validating and reflective listening (neil gave me this idea) really work- he was able to keep going...i only said a little opinion from my end- but otherwise i just let him get it out and it was unreal!
i love all the faces! i think i made them all today!!!!
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he was like a turtle that is slowly coming out of his shell- he had such a hard time saying this at the beginning of our talk an then the flood gates opened...holy cow! patience and validating and reflective listening (neil gave me this idea) really work- he was able to keep going...i only said a little opinion from my end- but otherwise i just let him get it out and it was unreal!
