Back to D. You're a great Mom and don't let the school system make you feel any less so. My D is 6 (almost 7) and sometimes I have to ask her to do something or call out to her 6 times before she either does it or asks what I want. It'll drive you batty!
AND yes your H is nuts, my dear. But let him buy what he wants and let him act as if. Soon he'll believe it too. Enjoy the coffee!
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*