What gets me it wasn't that many things for her to have to call my H. The nephew is 19 and very capable of helping. I just think it was an excuse to call my H.
Yep, a total excuse! Horrible! But still your H has the responsibility for being with her like that--she wasn't holding a gun to his head or whatever, so I think he is horrible, too. And the lying--what does Puppy say about that???--Cheaters always lie or something like that--clearly that is true. I am realizing that more as time goes on that is very true. And I think they not only lie to us but themselves too (to be able to live with themselves).
I am so so sorry you are going through this!!! I hope you will post whenever you feel like you need to--you have helped me and so many others here and been there for us, so it's good we can be there for you when you need it!!! Karen
