Hi-My H walked out a year ago -usual script"We both need to get a life Ive wanted to leave for years a divorce is only answer" etc etc. I fell apart-he was my life- but arranged divorce papers etc. We got as far as divorce nisi after that you wait 6 weeks.....sign on dotted line and have divorce absolute. We did a bit of counselling and 2 weeks before I was due to send signed paper off he says" you have changed could we delay divorce?" Sad to say he is still unsure we are still separated but it does go to show they can go right up to the line and then think again!