Yeah, my H was bragging to all his friends about me pretty much up until the day he slept with OW. THEN he wanted to tell me how bad things were....THEN he wanted a S....THEN he wanted a D....it was like a light bulb switched from my perspective. In his mind though, he was probably going through the motions for a while and the "connection" he made with OW was just the thing that pushed him over the edge.
If they will make you sad, don't do it. If they will give you clues on what to work on, perhaps - but use them CONSTRUCTIVELY and don't get wrapped up in them and sad/depressed. If they give you hope that you can get back to that, then sure. But it's about you and your PMA.
Take a deep breath.
Go work out or something.
(((sawks)))
Can't workout i am at work, and it's so quiet.. the Stampede parade is going on outside, so noisy
here is something from W's cousin, i asked a question this was response..
"As for T she is still really mad. I don't think she will forget what happened. You weren't honest, she trusted you and she got burned"
How the heck do i respond to that
My answer to me is : Keep your PMA.. no matter what noone can take that away, i can understand W is mad because of a trust issue but will she be purposely hurtful now? I doubt it, but it will drive me nuts thinking she MIGHT be dancing with other guys tomorrow
