happycamper: Jeff you are certainly much wiser than me! I can't imagine people having the strength to stay strong for months or years in order to reconcile their M once their spouses come back to them. Maybe what I mean is that I wouldn't have the strength to do it...
There are a lot of strong people here, that have the strenght to work on the M with their WAS, I admire them all. In my situation, I don't think there is much of a chance that W will want to reconcile or that I would be a strong as others here and forgive her for what she has done. I have always posted that I'm not the best DB'er. Right now I feel D is a necessity to protect my kids, my house and finances from a woman I don't know anymore, from a woman who isn't mentally stable. She has so many issues going on.
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happycamper:Sorry to have written an un-DB post. I hope you appreciate that we only write from where we know, and I am very new and inexperienced in this process.
I do the same thing all the time, I try to be understanding when I post to someone else, but if you read my post, I'm typically anti-DB. Don't ever worry about anything when you stop by, please speak your mind anytime and everytime. Call it as you see it and thank you for being here for me.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
