Hi Abbey, I haven't read your posts before but I wish I had.
You are so eloquent in describing the exhaustion you feel after dealing with your h. I feel the same way. At the moment I've gone dark grey on h (it's taken me a long time to get the guts to do so) because I just can't win when dealing with him.
I haven't really posted the details as to how I got to this board but the misunderstanding thing with your h really resonates with me also. My h was the one that had the affair yet he is the one pissy with me for not being able to just move forward and be happy again.
H's birthday is on Monday and I have invited him out for dinner on Sunday night along with d7. I'm nervous and not looking forward to it. I hate this acting 'as if' and displaying PMA when he's acting like a sooky little boy and talking in monotone only answering direct questions and just generally being morose and painful to be around. Are your critters doggies?
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe
