Hey Kat. Sorry about the wreck and sorry your H is such a F*cktard (that's a great word S&S, thanks).
I know how hard it is when your spouse is so wrapped up in themselves they can't see anything beyond the end of their nose. Me, me, me..me, me...me. If you can just think of your spouse being nothing but a self centered/absorbed wayward it helps me detach. I just try to remember that while under the influence of the OP, the portion of their brain that involves any thoughts of anyone but themselves is temporarily disabled.
Easier said than done, but it helps.
I'm glad no one was hurt in the accident. Cars can be fixed and just think, an insurance company has to PAY some money instead of just taking it in and YOUR insurance won't go up!
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.