Where is the real me? What do I want?

[stella_k]

Hi Purple!

And thanks for taking time to 2x4 me the other day:).I really needed it!

I also realised when I got home last night that he had been in the house because teh mail was on the kitchen bench. I'm a little peeved about him coming to the house

I second Racefan's opinion. I wouldn't enter H's apt without letting him know in advance and I would expect the same courtesy from him. I perfectly understand you feeling peeved.

I'm trying to think of what I should get him for a birthday present. I don't want anything too intimate but I don't want something too impersonal either. *sigh*

I had the same problem with H's birthday . It was in the middle of our first (madly intense!) attempt at piecing it together and
I didn't know what to get him. I ended up giving him a tiny bouquet of lilies-of-the-valley and telling him truthfully that I simply didn't know what else to do. We used to give each other rather expensive and fancy gifts, so it was a 180 for me.
And he loved it!

(((((Purple)))))