Jeff you are certainly much wiser than me! I can't imagine people having the strength to stay strong for months or years in order to reconcile their M once their spouses come back to them. Maybe what I mean is that I wouldn't have the strength to do it...
I admire your ability to hold that possiblity in your mind, I guess that's what makes you a good DBer!
Sorry to have written an un-DB post. I hope you appreciate that we only write from where we know, and I am very new and inexperienced in this process.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08