Flipper, Rest assured I feel your pain and much much more. My heart goes out to you. Its no joyride given you are here. My point is its not just a piece of paper, so please don't say that again because its the antithesis of hope!!! And if there are kids believe me you'll know what I mean! Once the legal process "takes over" it does a LOT of hard to reverse damage. Take care of yourself, I'm with you in your plight.