OMG! went sooooo well- he opened up so much about everything! he said he realized he needs to change, that i have made so many changes already, he sees that the grass isnt greener....everything i wanted to hear! music to my ears! i am elated...we hugged for sooo long- i kissed his neck...i am sooo excited. i know i need to back off and give him space still..i said its fine to take things slowly...im here for him any time to talk as friends! he said this week was really hard for him bc work finally slowed down and he had time to think- he went through the same feelings i did last night about being in the singles world and told his friend that he wanted to leave a bar...he said it was awful. YAY!!!!! he said he still isnt sure (ya right!) ... i really listened and validated, but my tongue and let him talk and get it out...very time i wanted ot say something and i started- he would say more...he kept going and going. he found his voice! this is the #1 thing he didnt have...and he is using it...so much more! i am on cloud 9- i will be calm and cool...i promise :
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese