I only can view things in re: to my sitch, and STBXW said she was happy - not perfectly, but happy - until she slept with and got emotionally involved with OM. And then she shut down. And will only work. And advisor says it's affecting her work. So I agree with H4U - an A changes things completely.
WCW: "I think WAS and LBS want all their friends to ask them what happened so we can all justify our actions to them."
Lodo you sound like you are doing so well, I hope to get there one of these days.
I so agree with you and H4U, and A changes EVERYTHING. My H has always prided himself on doing his job and being a good employee and since his A started, he has just been half-assed at best and then can't understand why there are people who don't like him at work...hmmmmm, let me ponder this. He seriously doesn't get it sometimes and I am certainly not the one to explain it.
My H doesn't want ANYONE to know about his A. He acts like its some big secret, still. Its really kinda funny in a sick way. Hes like a little kid with crumbs on his mouth, denying he had any cookies. Kinda sad.
Just wanted to put in my .02 fwiw. Have a great 4th and keep up all of the good things you have going for you.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
