Where is the real me? What do I want?

[Purple]

I also realised when I got home last night that he had been in the house because teh mail was on the kitchen bench. I'm a little peeved about him coming to the house (we both own it still so he has every right to come and go) because I wasn't expecting him to be there and my first reaction was to look around and see what state the house was in (bit below average). My second reaction was, what have a I left out in the open and has he snooped? He's not likely to snoop, at least as far as I am aware so I shouldn't worry. I'm just a bit peeved because I can't rock up to his place and walk in and have a look around. Who knows, he probably just came by to find something of his own adn bought the mail in for me.