i told my wife that work doesn't cover spouses(for the gym)... i offered to keep it on my card saying it's no big deal.. had a moment of weakness.. she told me she was getting her hair done saturday to go out with friends....i see her maybe trying to dance with other guys.. maybe i am wrong.. but she is going to be looking good.. kind of pisses me off.. but what can i do.. just keep going forward with what i am doing.. sure doesn't make it any easier..