In the next week, go and buy a pack of your favorite pens. You'll be doing a lot of writing. Everything you need will be provided, including pens, but you might as well have your favorite! BTW--no one except your S will be reading what you write, so don't worry about that. And there will be "prayer partners" praying for you throughout; you won't know each other's identity, but you'll feel the connection.

Best of luck. It's an intense, emotional, powerful, positive experience. The fact that your W agreed to go with you is very, very good!

Last edited by hoosiermama; 07/04/08 02:29 AM.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012