In the next week, go and buy a pack of your favorite pens. You'll be doing a lot of writing. Everything you need will be provided, including pens, but you might as well have your favorite! BTW--no one except your S will be reading what you write, so don't worry about that. And there will be "prayer partners" praying for you throughout; you won't know each other's identity, but you'll feel the connection.
Best of luck. It's an intense, emotional, powerful, positive experience. The fact that your W agreed to go with you is very, very good!
Last edited by hoosiermama; 07/04/0802:29 AM.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012