In my case the OW's H contacted me and we talked periodically. We more or less cried on each other's shoulder. It got where he called me way more than I cared for him to. I got where I would ignore his calls because it was always upsetting to me.

Well, he decided to share with his W that my H was playing us both. Guess what the OW goes and complains to my H who in turn got mad at me! He said we were co-conspiring! The only reason I told the OW's H that I was seeing H was to try to get him to stop calling me! Ironic thing is that my H said the that OW's H was manipulating me. He called the OW's H "a snake in the grass". To which I replied "And you don't think the OW is manipulating you"! I think there were snakes in the grass, but I'm not sure it was the OW's H!

I know that you don't plan on calling the OM, but I just had to share my story! Crazy, huh?




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon