Does the OW ever consider how if he leaves you then you too will be a single mom? So not right how selfish these Op can be? You sound amazingly strong though I must say..wish I could be more like you.
Funny you should say that because that was totally my thought after I read that text. She is scared of being a single mom? She already is.
I'm still convinced she planned on getting pregnant, but then again I don't have anything nice to say about her. Her total selfishness amazes me. She is emotional because she feels like a homewrecker? WTF?
Why would he keep a text that long? Its strange.
It also amazes me that these OW/OM go into it knowing that they are with a married person and all they care about are their own feelings.
Does she really believe that even if they end up together that they will have some fairy tale and live happily ever-after? I think that OW thinks that we (me & kids) will just go away and they will have their little life together. That or she thinks she will be a part of my kids' lives and she really doesn't want that, seriously. DS is so ready to give her a piece of his mind, and it will be something she will never forget.
She just doesn't realize that once she gets H all to herself, she just might be getting more than she bargained for. He has essentially gone out and recreated what he ran from, the difference is that this time around it was done during his Poker Tweeker phase and so its going to be a lot messier than the first time around.
Its so messed up, but he chooses to keep it this way, thats the part that really hurts. He could make it stop, but he WON'T.
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 07/04/0801:49 AM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
