Well you will never guess what happened to me...I just was in a wreck. I was running an errand, trying to do something nice for my Dad, when the car to the left of me decides he is turning in to the restaurant to the right of me. I was honking, trying to brake and hit his passanger rear door. Thankfully Christopher my 15 year old was with me because I was so upset.
I dented his car and on mine the driver side fender is banged up, the bumper is pushed back, and my car makes a terrible noise when I turn right. I pulled into the parking lot with the other guy and wouldn't you know who I called. Yep, H. He tried to calm me down. I was crying so hard that I just let S15 talk to him. H is so dense, he couldn't figure out that I needed him, just to support me, to calm me down and tell me everything was going to be fine. He was out of town (my guess at OW's house) and he said it would take a little while, but if I needed him he would come. I have always hated having to tell someone that you need them. Damn it they should know!
Anyway he came to the house and is here now, helping me make dinner and trying to calm me down. Yep, H is an alien. I came here for calming words. Please.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
(((Kat))) I'm so sorry about the accident, but so glad that you and Christopher are ok. Aliens never get it.
((((((HUGS))))) Glad that a dented fender and noise turning right were the worst of it.
Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Kat - I'm glad you and your son are OK. Some dents are going to be easily dealt with. You'll be fine. Going to H for help wasn't easy for you, but we all do what we know best. The only things damaged are just property. Tomorrow this won't be a crisis, it will be a nuisance. You'll be fine. Take a deep breath. Be thankful for what it is. You'll be fine.
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((((Kat)))) I'm so glad that you and your son are okay. I hate that this happened to you. Our emotions are magnified a million times when you are dealing with what we LBS are dealing with. So your reaction was very understandable. I of course understand why you called H, who have you always called when there was a crisis? Our spouses are supposed to be there for us. If nothing else he should have been there for his son! I'm glad that he did finally get it through his thick head that you both needed him.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I'm glad that he did finally get it through his thick head that you both needed him.
I think WAS lose about 50 IQ points, so they do the best I can I guess! Kat, I am SO GLAD you are OK!!!! So glad that your S is OK, too!!!! That's the only important thing!!!! So sorry you had a scary experience like that!!!! (((((Kat))))) Karen
I am so glad I can come here and talk to all of you. Turns out H was at OW's. I told him that I was sorry that I called him, I didn't even think but I didn't know who else to call. We sadly started some R talk and he said it always turns to this, you think I am broken and need to be fixed, I said well there is something wrong when you are effecting at least 10 people evryday and hurting most of them while you are at it. But the two of you don't even seem to care about that.
I guess in your world because I am in such a bad place I should just hop into bed with the first guy that shows some interest so that I will be in a much better place. He says when did I say that. I said that is what you are telling me what you did, so why not me.
It gets worse and I told him that just because he carries a picture of Jesus in his car doesn't mean all of his wrongs will be wiped away. Just because you moved out of the house before you decided to make it physical doesn't make it right.
He said I wasn't upset about my car or the accident I just wanted him at the house so I could start R talk. What an arrogant SOB. I need to stop crying...I'm taking a break.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
