Does the OW ever consider how if he leaves you then you too will be a single mom? So not right how selfish these Op can be? You sound amazingly strong though I must say..wish I could be more like you.

P.S. Happy Birthday to your DD

Me: 36 H: 34
2 D's: 10+13
Married: 13 yrs(Together 15)
Found out about A-Jan 08
Finally ended April 08..I hope??
Struggling to co-exist in peace