I think what may be bothering W more is that mutual friends go out of their way to do things for me - mainly because I'm nice and friendly and let them know I appreciate whatever they do. W is withdrawn and just works, and I think deep down she knows she tends to push people away even though she's more socially engaging than I am.
Lodo, you just described roomie and I and our best friends.
I knew you and I had a kinship
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."