Dave,

Quote:
Who has "the offer" now ?. If you have it , put it somewhere safe and dont give it back.


Thanks, got this minutes b/f H came by....it's put away safely.
As Gypsy says, since I have it already, I can't be threatened w/getting it & he doesn't know if I read it or not.

The threat of giving me the offer has been H's attempt @ control Kalni, & I'm now calling what looks like his bluff.

He just left after spending a full hour trying to convince me that we should watch the fireworks together across the street.

I followed DB successfully, & let him leave with winning the prize of spending 30 minutes with S's (although no promise from me that I would accompany them).

You would have thought he won the lottery.

Before he left, he apologized for giving me a headache with all this. "I can always tell when you rub the 3 little lines above your left brow. Well, the ones that used to be there, I just got the credit card bill. You've always been beautiful to me though."

Wow, I haven't heard much of anything like that in a while.

Looks like maybe my new boundaries increased my value.

*hugs* to you......

Sunny


Last edited by warm&sunny; 07/04/08 01:26 AM.

M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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