Who has "the offer" now ?. If you have it , put it somewhere safe and dont give it back.
Thanks, got this minutes b/f H came by....it's put away safely. As Gypsy says, since I have it already, I can't be threatened w/getting it & he doesn't know if I read it or not.
The threat of giving me the offer has been H's attempt @ control Kalni, & I'm now calling what looks like his bluff.
He just left after spending a full hour trying to convince me that we should watch the fireworks together across the street.
I followed DB successfully, & let him leave with winning the prize of spending 30 minutes with S's (although no promise from me that I would accompany them).
You would have thought he won the lottery.
Before he left, he apologized for giving me a headache with all this. "I can always tell when you rub the 3 little lines above your left brow. Well, the ones that used to be there, I just got the credit card bill. You've always been beautiful to me though."
Wow, I haven't heard much of anything like that in a while.
Looks like maybe my new boundaries increased my value.