Wondering if this is even close to average
- she and I make about the same, so no alimony involved
- I pay 13% of my gross salary in child support
- I pay 50% for camp, baseball, soccer, after school (until 6:30)
- I do enjoy taking him to the movies a few (maybe 3) times a year and the occasional rented video, the infrequent visit to the toy store
- I still go grocery shopping and feed my son about 4 nights a week
- (she's remarried, not that it matters)
- I still slowly etch away at my savings, while I hear about the vacation to North Carolina next week, and a possible one to Italy to see her husband's sister.
- I wont be seeing any vacation, aside from the 3 days this week, as I will miss him next week

Am I doing something wrong, or is this just normal and I need to suck it up?

Thanks.

Bill. "you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant Link To CURRENT Sitch