I have considered sending both of them a text. Something like, "Both of you dumba**'s deserve each other."
I almost asked her, "So do you have Cricket or Pocket?" Wait for the what does it matter question. "They are the phone preference of ALL cheaters."
You are not the first or the last one on the DBB to think about this btw.. Dont.. Concentrate on YOU and the kids now.. those are the things you can control and work on... Do that and next year all will be okay !... or atleast better.
Oh.. and remember that her illness is hers.. not yours ! Get off the "Fixer" thing, okay ? You cant do it.
