My husband is still at home. In fact, if anyone leaves, it'll be me. Can't afford the mortgage on my own... I should know more about my situation in a few weeks (after my husband has completed his project).
I'm so glad you have plans for the 4th. Seems like Boston would be a great place to visit this time of year - so much history! I wish I could give you a magic trick to make the hurt go away. Just do the best you can... muddle through. Try to have some fun. Have you been able to really laugh yet? If not, when it happens, you'll be taken aback because it feels so strange.
Have a safe trip. Will look forward to your updates.
xo, gfi
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence