Texting: Tell me when you are on your way home. So I can go shopping. I waited a half hour. I have class, do you need a break from them. 15 minutes later. Yes. Then I will not go to class drop them off. she text NO. I text: Then what? She text: I'll drop them off after class.
K I'm taking a nap then. If you want a break drop them off now.
Ru going to class. I text: I would rather give you a break and see them now. Do you want me to pick them up.
NO. (End Texting)
Should have been:
W:Tell me when you are on your way home. So I can go shopping.
Phil: I am on my way home now, I have class in ---- minutes.
THE END
It is not your job to drag info out of her. If she needs your help, let her ask. KISS....
No offers of grand gestures, everything matter of fact like.
She responds I need a break, you respond here is when I can give you one.... that's it. Simple answers to simple questions.
Again Phil, you don't have to prove anything to her. You just have to be the man you are and take care of yourself. The rest will fall in line.
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Ian, your right it's all bullshit, down to the last drop.
Anger speak.... got it. All I said was that the you didnt love me enough is BS, because it is.
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I'm ready to give up. I need to stop making it worse.
#1- no your not ready to give up, your ready to try different approaches. When you are really ready to give up, you will know and now is not that time.
