That whole "act as if" thing. SUCH a hard one to do when you feel so down, but you are right Lola. People like happy people. Think of who YOU gravitate to in a room of strangers. The sullen person in the corner, our the one loudly laughing, chatting it up........ etc.

I know for my sitch I need to do so much more of this. I KNOW H is attracted to that, and that is ALWAYS who I've been. Unfortunatly for 3 months now, all he sees is a blubbering idiot crying at every turn. Not too attractive I'm sure.

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!