My H informed me my papers will be coming any day. I totally understand feeling totally defeated. At this point I think I need to shift my thinking to doing what I have to do to for me and my girls, and pray that somewhere in the mix he comes around, but I'm trying to keep some part of me open to him.
Split the finances, get a plan in place, but like others have advised me, it's not up to us to do this FOR them. She should take the work on. You don't have to go out of your way to speed it along. Be cordial, validate her feelings ,but I wouldn't help it along easily. Hang in there. I'm tryin'.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
