My W has filed and, yes, it throws a big wrench into things BUT it's only paper. Honestly, we see people get re-married (to each other) all the time.
Maybe it's mostly paper in your case, since there are 0 kids, maybe not much $ down the tubes, more hope for an R, etc. But just really get a sense of the pain and suffering here and then tell me if its just paper. Could you point us to the "whopping 14%" statistics?