Minkerman: Never thought I'd make it here!

[minkerman]

Thanks Jack....

So, I have a couple of minutes here at work.

UPDATE: She has been more affectionate with me lately. I am not making a big deal out of it. I just smile at her and maybe say "that's nice" when she does something like rub my back when we are watching TV.

We are doing things together, like going for evening walks, holding hands, going to the beach, kayaking, dinner out etc. But we are also spending time with friends, away from each other.

I don't follow her around the house. I don't call her or email her all day at work. I am very aware of the 'needy' type behaviours that someone in my position could easily fall into.

I am playful with her. I wink at her and tell her she looks sexy when she least expects it.

At the end of the day, it looks like we are doing well, and we will be together.

I am thankful for all who listened to my story, and offered advice. I will still hang around, and update where necessary, but I think this divorce is busted.

I will never take my eye off the ball again. She is too important to me.