OK, a question! Do you think that I might want to put off asking her if she ever sees working on the M for a bit, at least until I see how she reacts to this?
Get the tweezers out ! I would never ever ask her if she wants to "work" on the marriage. That implies that you think SHE needs to do more. DAM ! (with love)
Remember the post I made about my H being impatient. We had like 26 good days, & in the car he mentions "I'd like to have my needs met" WTF I met his needs for all those years, & that was all he ever said "I have needs woman". Who cares ! j/k sort of. I'm meeting his needs again, but I sure don't want to hear about them. Deja vu, ya know !
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
