SD..if you read any of the 'male attraction manuals', we are taught that a statement is a question and a question is a statement. The 'I dunno, what do YOU wanna do' line is a killer. I was never a fan of the 'give him a copy of the book thing', but, how would he respond to getting some 'literature'? FIB
LOL...he would probably read it to please me, but secretly think he knows it all already. H can't stand to be wrong, more than me even. It makes for interesting dynamics!
What I'm taking from this is that I need to learn how to better communicate what I want from him instead of just hoping he'll figure it out. Sometimes I think I'm being clear or I just don't want to seem too pushy. Wouldn't it just be easier if we all were able to communicate directly with no ego/fear in the way? But then what would we be upset by?
FIB--I say your wife can say whatever she wants, but until her actions are in alignment with what she says...over time...beware. Change is possible in anyone, but there's a huge difference between living that change and simply saying you have changed, you know?
Julie--I forgot to say hi and thanks for checking in! You don't post much anymore, so I'm taking it your life is full and wonderful!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
