Your w is hard to read!
I don't know anything about those books, but if she feels pressured when you suggest ways she could be happy, I don't suggest you send the books.
Send her this for a smile...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzMuax75s3M&feature=related


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."