Your w is hard to read! I don't know anything about those books, but if she feels pressured when you suggest ways she could be happy, I don't suggest you send the books. Send her this for a smile...
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."