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You know, start simple in my view. You don't want to shock her and for her to wonder what you are doing. You just want her to be pleasantly surprised. If she isn't that affectionate then maybe a simple one saying I hope you have a nice day. I think slow progression and as she gets used to them you can then progress on...

Start simple and work up.

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Great Jen,

NOW you tell me!!! Whatever, I will just have to use it with the lucky guy...

Jeff, you have like 200 options/ideas by now. Pick one!
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Maybe a note saying "I have missed YOU"?


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Start simple yes but do it with a little oomph (un poquito Jeff)


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

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I need to find a trick, although it seems that when I don't call him I hear from him more. Maybe thats my trick lmao


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Wow!

I make a quick lunch run, and look what happens!

(((((Kalni, Julia, GF, Jen, Lola, n_a, Michelle, Lisa, Mishka, cookie, Ali)))))

So many great ideas! That's what I love about this place! I was too close to the forest to see the trees, so to speak!

I really like cookie's idea of a smiley on the mirror. I could easily do it after she's in bed, and she would see it in the morning. On a day she works she'd be under no pressure to respond at all, since she's the only one up that early.

Then, I could graduate to a "Have a good day!" note left on the seat of her car, or something like that.

Kalni, I like your idea, too, but I don't think she's ready for that one yet!

Jen, I think I'll hold off on throwing shoes for a bit, too. Though the results sound pretty good! I'm not sure it would work for me just now!

I can make a lot of ASSumptions about how she'll react, but I am going to bury those for the time being.

OK, a question! Do you think that I might want to put off asking her if she ever sees working on the M for a bit, at least until I see how she reacts to this?

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
OK, a question! Do you think that I might want to put off asking her if she ever sees working on the M for a bit, at least until I see how she reacts to this?
I vote yes!


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YES!!!!

'Nuff said.

(((((Jeff))))) Sometimes actions speak louder than words.


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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Sometimes actions speak louder than words.

That's true. Haven't had any of those actions in a good long time.... ;\)

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LMAO. Yeeesh. I know the feeling.


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Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
LMAO. Yeeesh. I know the feeling.

Your "long time" and my "long time" are a little different!

But, even so, yeah!

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