Marcum, how is she acting ? is she still in the same house with you ? is she angry ? is she sullen & withdrawn ? give us some more info please.
In my sitch, if my H would have pulled back, we'd be D by now. I wanted him to fight for me, & fight hard. I wanted him to prove to me thru his actions that he did love me & realized he had neglected me. I basically wanted him to kiss my *ss for as long as I asked. & he did, & I'm still here, & we're doing better than we ever have.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
